Women can pick up on how confident a guy is much easier than any man can. It’s a skill they’ve been trained to do since they were little girls. You can probably remember being in elementary or high school and seeing a group of the “popular” chicks picking on another girl or group of girls relentlessly until she developed a noticeable eating disorder. Did you ever wonder how girls know who to pick on? It’s not necessarily how they look…if you’ve ever seen a group of hotties with a few monsters in the mix, you know that hot groups of chicks don’t always rule out the possibility of hanging with ugly chicks. Women can identify subtle insecurities in everyone regardless of the physical appearance. Those girls that get picked on and develop those eating disorders didn’t think highly of themselves to begin with, and the other girls would pick up on the low self esteem and insecurities and swoop in for the kill. This phenomenon has only changed slightly since high school. We all know how bitchy women can be to each other about the stupidest shit, all the time pecking away at possible weaknesses. Nonetheless, it helps to recognize that women are keenly aware of how confident those around them are…or at least how confident those around them appear to be.
Like my man David DeAngelo once said,
“Ask yourself, ‘How would I walk if I believed that I could make any woman feel great inside?’, ‘How would I talk if I believed that I could make any woman feel great inside?’, ‘What would the expression be on my face if I believed that I could make any woman feel great inside?’, ‘How would I act differently if I were the kind of man that women dreamed about?’ Then start doing these things. When you’re talking to a woman, imagine how good you’re going to make her feel. Fake it till you make it. Just do it. Women will notice.”
Back to what I said earlier about chicks being downright mean to other chicks. It happens all the time…if you’ve ever been in the company of a group of women acting how they do when men aren’t around – maybe by overhearing a conversation of a group of close female friends who didn’t know you were listening – they can be brutal in judging each other. Most women do it, but beautiful women have a side of themselves that they’d never admit to anyone, no matter how comfortable they felt. The secret that these sexy women harbor is that they want a man who is in control of himself, everything around him, and especially, in control of her.
Now, just imagine the feminazis going “APE SHIT” at the sound of that, but it’s true…even the feminazis secretly feel that way. And not only that, but beautiful women have a strong contempt for people who don’t or can’t control themselves and their realities, especially if those people are men. Those men are perceived with lesser stature and are then less desirable. Have you ever seen a woman reject a guy at a bar? Especially if the chick is gorgeous and knows it, they can be absolutely brutal. I’ve seen normal, nice guys approach a beautiful girl in a bar and before the guy has a chance to say anything she says, “Go away, I’m not interested.” Anyone who would do that to a seemingly normal person must not think to highly of him, and that’s exactly right. Those beautiful women don’t think too highly of most guys who approach them, in fact, they secretly despise most of them. But it’s not because they’re sick of being hit on…I mean, if there’s one thing women cannot get enough of it’s attention. The reason these chicks are so mean is because of the way the guy approaches…they can see within seconds that this guy, while maybe a nice, normal guy, is, quite frankly, a PUSSY! And pussies are just the guys who women have the strongest contempt for.
The mistake most pussies make is that they assume that just because women accept their gifts and drinks and whatever else these pussies give away for free, that the women will like them better because of what they’re giving. Not the case…rather, the more a guy gives to a women, the more her contempt builds for him. And it makes sense why…I mean, the guy that buys girls drinks at a bar who thinks that’s a good way to get laid at some point obviously has no idea how women work, women see this and while they may have no problem taking free drinks from every sucker who offers them, they see right through the ploy…women know damn well the only reason you’re buying them drinks is because you want to “get some.” This flagrant use of cash to impress makes a man seem more desperate and thus less desirable in those same women’s eyes.
A guy who genuinely believes he’s the shit isn’t going to spend money on some chick he barely knows, in hopes that she’ll somehow like him better because of it. Rather, he walks around talking to whoever he wants, enjoying himself knowing that every chick in the place would be lucky just to talk to him.
So far we have discussed the most common mistake men make, splashing money around buying chicks they just met anything from the bar. This approach just highlights the more important issue about self worth and your outward projection of this confidence which is the key underlying issue. Since many women are very perceptive about how you perceive yourself and how others perceive you. They are constantly assessing everyone around them, including you! This is why it critically important to project confidence by your attitude and actions (no pissing your $$$ away on dumb broads who haven’t done any thing to earn those drinks).
Since women are acutely aware of you it is important to project that image a high self worth, control and confidence. Ways to exude these traits include these 6 things:
-Smiling/laughing (emphasizes overall sense of happiness/wellbeing and satisfaction)
-Funny/witty comments (indicates intelligence, engagement, control and confidence)
-Confident/good posture/body language (shows confidence, self worth and makes you physically look better)
-Maintain Eye contact (never break eye contact or look away when you connect eyes, shows confidence, and control and promotes self worth)
-Pay attention to nervous habits (no fidgeting/heavy breathing/swallowing, shows confidence and control)
-Slight touches (shows confidence with subtle touching, shows her that you control your personal space and the space between you)
If you can do all the above 6 things you will start projecting the outward appearance of confidence and self worth. You start to become more confident and in control of your own destiny. This skill will take time to perfect but as you hone your skills of self projection you will elevate women’s perceptions of yourself. Remember a woman that is desirable herself wants a desired not necessarily a desirable man. Since just about everyone is trying to fuck her she gets to choose anyone she wants. What sets you apart? You need to carry yourself confidently and pay attention to your image and women’s perceptions of you to even have a chance. Knowing and feeling that you are the “shit” will start a snowball effect or a “forced feedback loop” that will make you infinitely more popular with women. If you start doing the above 6 things smiling, wit, body language, eye contact, no nervous habits, and subtle touching women will perceive and identify your confidence, control and desirability. You will have a “presence” about you, women will then treat you with respect, in higher regard as a more desired person. This phenomenon will gradually perpetuate more confidence for you moving forward. This will be a self fulfilling prophecy, will build on itself and get you that “foot in the door” you need to close the deal. These are the first steps to creating desire, and initial attraction. Building that attraction and creating intense feelings with women to make her want to fuck your brains out have been and will be discussed in later articles. Remember, knowing you’re “The Shit,” and believing you are “The Shit” will make you “The Shit” so get out there and Fuck Some Shit Up!