Reading a woman’s eye contact isn’t really that difficult at all. The main problem most men have is that they haven’t tried it with enough women to notice some common signals of interest. Once you’ve field tested this dating tip, you’ll start to recognize the signs that a woman is attracted to you with ease.

I’m going to say this as simply as possible; if a woman isn’t enthralled with you, you’re not taking full advantage of your potential–enter the takeaway dating tip. For you guys out there that never have much luck with the ladies, the idea of a woman being enthralled is a little foreign. That’s ok, just remember, it’s not an impossible thing to do, you just need to effectively implement the techniques we cover here at Public Flirt.

Now, reading a woman’s eye contact is pretty easy. All you’re looking for is interest…if she’s looking into your eyes while you’re speaking, that’s good, if she’s not, that’s bad. It’s as simple as that. A woman looking into your eyes doesn’t necessarily mean she’s attracted to you, she may just be polite. Determining the difference is a different dating tip entirely and the topic of another article. So for now, just understand that if she’s looking into your eyes, that’s one less problem you have to worry about.

The Magic of the Takeaway

The takeaway is such a powerful technique that it really deserves an entire book unto itself. In fact, I know guys who are very successful with women who depend entirely on the takeaway when it comes to their “game.” With that said, let’s dive into the takeaway with respect to eye contact.

Think of the takeaway just the way it sounds…you’re taking something away. In this case, it’s eye contact. The takeaway is nothing more than an effective implementation of a punishment-reward interaction with a woman. A woman who wants your attention will feel a slight loss if she doesn’t maintain a progressive conversation. So, taking away eye contact after she’s shown an attraction to you, will make her feel like she’s lost your attention, and she will always try to reclaim what she things she is loosing. You have to make her work for it!

If a woman starts talking about things that don’t have the effect of pushing the relationship further along– stupid girl talk like, “Where are you from? Where did you grow up? What school did you go to?”…mundane or commonplace bullshit–you need to take away eye contact. Think of it as showing her that you’re not interested in talking about that. On the other hand, if she asks you what kind of women you like to date, give her more eye contact, and stronger eye contact. These types of questions are a sign that she’s sizing you up as potential relationship material and comparing your past girlfriends to herself…This is a good thing. It’s a simple system of punishment and reward, but it works wonders on building stronger attraction in women.

Conclusion

Reading a woman’s eye contact is an essential part of determining her level of attraction for you. The best way to become an expert at this is to practice, practice, and then when you think you’ve had enough practice, practice again. Just get out there and talk to some ladies. Flirting with women is an art, and it takes practice to utilize this dating tip and master this art form. The same goes for the takeaway…while you can learn quite a bit about it here, to refine your technique you really need to get out and practice. And don’t worry about being nervous or lacking confidence…just fake it ‘till you make it and before you know it, you’ll be fighting women off with a two-by-four.

Here are some Takeaways on Takeaways!

A shortcut to displaying confidence is looking away sometimes when she’s talking – like something else is interesting you…not enough to make her feel bad, but just enough to let her know that she needs to work harder to keep your attention

If she’s opening up to you or saying something important, hold eye contact during that time…punishment – reward…you want her to open up to you because it will make her feel more connected and as a result more comfortable and liable to sleep with you…encourage that behavior by keeping eye contact so she knows your interested.

Eye contact is intimate…the level of eye contact is determined by, and will determine the level of intimacy…Use this to your advantage – remember, eye contact will demonstrate either confidence or longing…the latter you absolutely do not want to convey…you seem desperate, and women will find it, and you creepy.

Most importantly, learn to recognize the meaning behind her eye contact…if a woman is not holding eye contact with you, say something. Tell her, “Hey, I’m right here, and point to both of your eyes with your index and middle finger.” If she doesn’t respond apologetically, or she continues to look around as you speak to her, she isn’t interested. If this happens you should cut your losses, ditch the bitch and find yourself a hotter one!