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Friends with benefits, pals with privileges, fuck buddies… whatever you call it, the idea of a casual sexual relationship has become very popular among young adults who are too busy for a serious relationship or people that just don’t want one. There are no rules when it comes to this type of “action”, but there are some tips this video recommends for friends with benefits.
This video has some tidbits of helpful information. Our advice. This is “no holds barred” so don’t pull any punches, and keep in mind, it will probably end up in “on the ropes” with someone’s emotions beaten senseless. With that said, knock yourself out!
Odds will be in your favor if your “friend” is a mature adult who has already experienced a long-term relationship, isn’t emotionally needy, and respects your privacy. If it’s an old friend or a friend of a friend, you may already know a lot about tendencies and demeanor. A co-worker adds the “easy access” factor, but be careful if your company has a policy against inter-office romances.
Definitely find a woman that has been involved in a long-term. These women have been so emotionally attached to their ex-boyfriend/husband that they don’t expect you to fill those shoes. They instead just see you as a “fun time,” a no nonsense fuck-buddy, they will be more likely to understand that this is a purely physical relationship and the woman won’t be as emotionally attached, (although an overly-emotional woman is still pretty much unavoidable).
Get the rules out in the open from the beginning. Talk about the potential consequences of this relationship, like pregnancy, and STD’s. Agree that it’s okay to ask, and equally okay to just say no. You can promise not to tell anyone and agree that you both have the right to deny it completely.
Absolutely define at least some ground rules in a casual non serious manner. Part of the reasons having friends with benefits (fuck-buddy) is great is because it isn’t serious, it isn’t stressful and there aren’t any rules. With that said you still want to be clear what your expectations are: that these are casual hook ups/booty-calls with no intention of a relationship. Many women will get confused and try to see a light at the end of a tunnel where a relationship will be waiting or try to change a man. Don’t let this happen if you sense this is becoming a more likely possibility, “hit it and quit it.” Make sure their expectations coincide with yours, or at least partially, the rest is being a good actor.
Consider your options. Make out buddies mean kissing and fondling only. This can be difficult for some. After all, one thing tends to lead to another. But if you both have good self-control, more power to you! Massage buddies are also only for the strong-willed. Massage buddies take turns being the giver and receiver. Enjoy a great massage and maybe an occasional happy ending. Full coverage benefits mean anything goes. But be careful: sex means intimacy. Avoid extra kissing and cuddling while in a full benefits type of relationship. It can send conflicting messages.
Lets face it we aren’t in it for kissing buddies or massage buddies. This part of the video is totally ridiculous, the only thing friends with benefits should mean is “casual fucking” all that touchy feely bullshit is a waste of time. If you think kissing or massaging is a way into their pants, go for it. Make sure not to bring up any “ground rules conversation” (mentioned above) especially when all you’re getting is a little lip action and some measly massages. This will make you look fucking retarded and you can bet you with be stuck with “Rosie Palm” or “Pamala Handerson” getting’ no real pussy!
When the mood strikes, contact your friend. Spontaneity is key in a “friends with benefits” relationship. Anticipation is the best part, after all. Try texting your FWB during a grueling workday; see if she can get away to meet you for lunch. It’s as easy as that!
Be impulsive and spontaneous with your interaction. Obviously not being over anxious, and definitely not more than a few times a week on your request. If the rest of the encounters is on her request you are good. Try to maintain a parallel level of interest. That is, if you text her for a hookup two times in a row and you want to call her a third consecutive time in the same week, HOLD OFF. Wait a little for her to reciprocate. Don’t wear her out literally and seem more desperate than you really are. Yea dirty sex is fucking awesome but don’t over indulge it could smother your fuck-buddy! And if the sex isn’t regular enough ad another fuck-buddy to the “Ho-lodex!”
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