There’s no doubt you need to be talkative around women to score, just being “really, really, ridiculously good looking” is not even close to enough to seal the deal…sorry all you introverts, it’s time to come out of your shells, because it’s true. But that’s not what this article is about; this article is about how you say what you say, rather than what you actually say.
This technique is mind-blowing in it’s effectiveness, and it’s one of those things that once you get it right a few times, not only will it come naturally from then on, but it will step up your game to a whole new level. That said, it can’t be used on every chick out there right out of the box. You can pretty much bet that if you’re talking to one of those chicks who considers themselves as “one of the guys,” it’ll be tough to pull off. Now don’t get me wrong, like a lot of techniques, it isn’t necessarily less effective on women who have a high initial resistance to it, it’s just more difficult to pull off correctly with those types of women.
So what the hell are we talking about anyway? We’re talking about strategically transitioning into using your “bedroom voice” with a woman you’re trying to nail. Now it doesn’t matter where you are or how long you’ve known this chick, if you can transition into using that bedroom voice, and do it correctly, she will go into heat right there in front of your eyes…and yes this is a beautiful thing.
When I say “bedroom voice,” I mean that voice you use when you just finished having sex with a chick and she’s lying there next to you and you’re talking to her in that half-asleep, half-playfultone. You know what I’m talking about. Anyway, you can use that exact tone with a chick at a bar and she’ll be begging you to take her home.
So why does this work? The answer’s simple and lies in the fact that chicks are generally single dimensional and for lack of a better word, dumb. You see, women operate and make decisions based on how they feel, not what is actually the rational, logical choice at the time, like men do. With this knowledge of a woman’s decision making process you can take advantage and reap the rewards. Put it this way, if you’re a dude and you’re out at a bar, and some chick suddenly starts talking very seductively to you, the first thought that goes through your head is, “Why the hell is this bitch talking like this?” The second thought is, “Do I really care as long as she takes off her clothes.” Now reverse the situation, you start talking confidently in your “bedroom voice” with a woman and, as long as you do it correctly, instead of her thinking, “What the hell is this guy talking like this for?” She won’t be thinking at all, she’ll be feeling, and you know what she’ll be feeling? She’ll be feeling like she’s incredibly comfortable, at ease and sexually attracted to you. Why? Because that’s how she normally feels when she hears that kind of talk.
This technique works especially well with subtle touching around the hips, or playfull physical contact.
Using this technique is like shooting fish in a barrel because you’ve made her feel like she’s already been intimate with you, even though she hasn’t. The logic that a man would use, in this situation would be something like, “I haven’t had sex with this chick yet, why is she using her bedroom voice?” That thought process is fleeting at worst and nonexistent at best. The question will not even permeate through the woman’s brain. Trust, that a thought like that is just an insignificant and passing idea that most women fail to process.
This point about women’s feelings and how they operate is incredibly important, but it’s a complete topic on it’s own, so we’ll delve into that further in other articles.
So How do You Transition to Using Your Bedroom Voice without it being Obvious, Awkward or even Creepy?
First of all, I want to make it clear that you can get away with a lot more than you think you can as far as transitions and things like that. As men, we’re constantly analyzing things from a logical perspective and so we recognize when the mood suddenly shifts, and it seems awkward, or at least obvious to us. Women don’t see that. That’s just how they work, I’ve gotten away with some of the most blatant and obvious transitions you’ve ever heard in your life with women, so stop overanalyzing your game in that way and go for it.
That said, you can’t ignore the transition altogether, as it does have to be done correctly, just not as perfect as you probably think. I think of my role as a man trying to get laid like this…
I’m a military scout…my job is to probe the enemy’s perimeter until I find an open entry point. I may spend an hour probing the perimeter at different points trying to find an access point. I may try to dig a tunnel on the west side, if that doesn’t work, I’ll try to cut through the barbed wire on the east side, that may not work either so then maybe I’ll see if I can’t just walk right in the front gate. All the while, I’m careful not to get too much attention of those bitches up in the guard towers with the spotlights and high powered rifles. If they see me, I’m toast. It may take 5 minutes, it may take an hour, but eventually I find a way in. Once I do, I send my whole Army sneaking in there until the enemy is so overwhelmed she has to surrender. And surrender she does.
Transitioning into bedroom speak is no different. Start out light, maybe tell her a joke, and to keep everyone from hearing you take your voice down a notch.
Be playful in your tone, posture yourself confidently and always end what you say with a smile.
If she doesn’t run for the hills, probe a little further and look her right in the eyes the whole time while you’re telling the joke. At this point, the joke is no longer a joke, but just some background noise against the intense feelings that start building inside of her. If you’ve gotten this far and she maintains eye contact, lean in a bit, then slowly take your facial expression from one that says, “Hi, I’m a douche bag and I’m here to tell you a stupid joke” to one that says, “Hi, I’m going to twist your emotions up into a wild ball of intense passion and make you feel like you never believed you could feel.” Now, that’s chick talk, that’s how you want her to feel. Interpreted in guy talk this means, “I’m going to do you, I’m really, really going to do you good.”
This technique is a tough one to get down right, but it’s one of the most powerful weapons in your repertoire as a player. Once you get it down, you’ll be doing it naturally with women. You’ll start noticing crazy things like 5 minutes into a conversation with a woman on the phone you’re both talking in your bedroom voices. You’ll get so good you’ll do it without even realizing it and you’ll be getting laid left and right because of it.
The below article is in response to a video showing women how to manipulate men. The first part of each section is the summarization of the video and the second is the response PublicFlirt.com suggests when faced with these mindless tactics. THIS VIDEO CAN BE VIEWED BY CLICKING ON THE VIDEO CONSOLE AT THE END OF THIS ARTICLE. Enjoy!
Skank’s Suggestion:
Stupid woman’s suggestions and instructions on how to manipulate men.
Response:
Ways a real man would handle a woman’s petty attempts at manipulation.
Step 1:Play hard to get
Skank’s Suggestion #1:
“Don’t rush to pick up calls from your guy, what do you think voicemail is for? He’ll leave a message, but don’t reply for a least a couple of days. If you make him think you’ve got more important things to do - he’ll just want you more.”
Response #1:
We have seen women do this time and time again. This lackadaisical approach to returning your calls or committing to anything, is a common tactic used by women to “increase their own value.” Interestingly, this approach works equally well with women. An important note, it is difficult to use this strategy on a woman that is also using it on you. If this happens it might become a “stale mate” until one person gives in. Don’t give in to this…hold your line and validate yourself as a man that is “in demand” with a schedule packed with fun/exciting things, with less time for her. During a phone call with the manipulative woman, having friends, especially the occasional girl overheard in the background should flip the script on her and get those jealous juices flowing. If the woman continues to play hard to get cater to her for a few days following through with everything you say and maintain your reliability towards her. Make her feel comfortable and confident that she is “winning” and then “ICE HER.” Basically be extremely reliable and then be extremely unreliable and make her wonder why. To make this more effective mention you have a “friend” flying into town or you have been invited to one of your girl-friend’s birthday parties this next weekend. Make some plans with the girl you are trying to “GAME.” Plan an activity with her on say Friday. Call her Friday morning in a brief conversation say you can’t make it that night and tell her you will call her Saturday. Then don’t call her until Monday evening or Tuesday. When you finally do call her make some Bull Shit excuses as to why you have been unavailable. Do this a few times, “RINSE AND REPEAT” and you will be back in control. This will work…if it doesn’t, the girl is just playin’ games and you should ditch the bitch and stock your stable with another!
Step 2: Flattery
Skank’s Suggestion #2:
“Now you’ve got his attention, chuck him a bone and stroke that ego. Tell him how great he’s looking, or how impressed you are with his knowledge of sports or current events. Flattery works especially well when combined with step 1: playing hard to get. Build him up, knock him back, build him up, knock him back. Look how confused he is - now your winning.”
Response #2:
Pay close attention to this flattery technique. Everyone loves compliments, especially a man trying to “bump uglys” with the woman throwin’ compliments his way. A women that gives you compliments will ALWAYS indicate a level of approval, admiration or interest. This is true even with compliments as corny as your “food ordering abilities” or your “choice in music.” Depending of what level of Manipulative Bitch you are dealing with will determine the level of attention you must pay to the compliments. Pay attention to both the regularity of the compliments, and the type (relationship/non relationship oriented). Basically, pay attention to both the breadth and depth of the compliments. The more regular the compliments, the more proactive the woman is, and the more work the she is putting in. Frequent complimenting of a benign, non relationship oriented nature indicates a woman is interested in you as a prospect, is willing to put in effort but is not quite sure that you are exactly what she is looking for. She is on the offensive, she is interested in you but still qualifying you as a candidate. If her compliments are more sparse but focused on your relationship oriented traits like intelligence, your features, or sense of humor she has qualified you as a dating prospect and is trying to evince action from you. Basically, she is trying to get you to realize her level of interest and eager for you to reciprocate. She is trying to get you to pursue her and meet her more than halfway. Don’t even meet her partway, compliment her sparsely and then simultaneously mention or suggest and idea or an opinion she will perceive as a negative view of her standing with you. Basically pump her up and then make her unsure of herself. Keep her guessing. Do this a few times always in a playful manner/tone and you will have success when a woman tries to use flattery to give her an edge.
Step 3: Bribery
Skank’s Suggestion #3:
“This is straight forward. You know what he wants, so dangle it in front of him make sure he knows that he won’t be getting it until you get what you want first. What you want, is up to you. This tactic means you might go a while relying on your trusty vibrator. But who care when there’s a Tiffany’s bracelet at stake.”
Response #3:
There isn’t much you can do when a woman uses this technique. Keep in mind if all this bitch is doing is dangling her pussy in front of you to bribe you to do things for her, you don’t want to go down that path anyway. If she tries to get you to do something for her, ask yourself “does fulfilling this request or meeting this demand compromise my self worth or decrease my value as a successful and desirable man?” If it doesn’t, then go right ahead. If it does respond in the same way a high valued man would respond. If she gives you shit for not meeting her every “beck and call” just casually say something to let her know that you can’t and you won’t do these kinds of things on an ongoing basis. Say (playfully) “well babe I can’t do this for you right now because my other girlfriend wore me out today…if I did these kind of things for every pretty girl I meet I wouldn’t have enough time for you.” Never buy women gifts and especially never buy them jewelry when they try to bribe you. Let her know your level of interest, by doing some of the things she asks (maybe 30% of the time) but never be at a woman’s every beck and call. Don’t do this because you are too good for it, if you’re not too good to do those things the women will realize your low self-esteem a drop you like the subservient loser you are.
Step 4: Jealousy
Skank’s Suggestion #4:
“If he thinks other men are after you he will just want you more, like a shiny, glamorous trophy he’s trying to win. As soon as he spots competition he’ll be bending over backwards and jumping through hoops to make you happy.If there isn’t anyone to flirt with in the vicinity merely talking about other men will push his buttons and make him putty in your hands. Tell him about; ‘Brad’ who’s a ‘great guy’ that you ‘always hang out with.’ Or go that step further and send yourself some flowers from ‘a secret admirer.’ Forget honesty and self respect - they won’t get you anywhere.”
Response #4:
Don’t play this game with women. You can show a little bit of jealousy initially but then laugh off the rest of her attempts at creating jealousy as the pathetic attempts they are. What will get a woman’s interest is a man so confident in his own self worth that he isn’t fazed by her attempts to make him jealous. She will think “wow he isn’t worried about ‘Brad’ even though I talk about how great he is all the time, maybe he’s just not that into me, maybe he has other women maybe he has a few other women.” When you don’t respond in a predictable fashion to the women’s attempts to make you jealous you will throw her off balance, you will knock her off her pedestal, keep her guessing and keep her off balance. Your main goal should be to act in a manner that is contradictory to her expectations. Being un-fazed will get the woman’s “wheels turning” and she will try to analyze and pinpoint the million possibilities for your confidence in yourself and for the reasons you aren’t jealous of another men. Obviously you don’t want to act indifferent to everything. You still want to be playful, exciting and let her know that you “could be interested.” Make her work for your attention. Make her meet you more than half way and act as though you have such a high self value that you aren’t worried about competition. Why you ask. Because if you act confident and unaffected by her bullshit jealousy tactic she will automatically put a higher value on you, and thus you will be more desirable to her and you will be in control. Not her.
Step 5: Play Dumb
Skank’s Suggestion #5:
“Play Dumb and let him help you. Whatever it is. If you make him feel helpful and you show appreciation you will be able to gradually get him to do anything. Yep, it’s setting the woman’s movement back about 100 years, but if you can get away with it why not?”
Response #5:
To respond to this tactic I will quote a famous passage “Give a man a fish; you have fed him for today. Teach a man to fish; and you have fed him for a lifetime” The same principle applies with women only with hopefully less of a fishy smell. If a woman repeatedly plays dumb, she probably is. Well I guess that goes without saying, she is a woman! Well in all fairness there are some smart women that play dumb to manipulate men. As a man you can stop this by teaching her, giving her instruction on how to do something, and then having her show you what you just taught her. If she resists your teaching then she is just trying to use you to do things for her and it is likely she will change her view of you from a potential relationship to an on-call handyman. Don’t “baby” women. Hot women have it sooo easy. Why you ask? Because every man they meet is trying to fuck them. Because of this, they always have men at their disposal, yes their “DISPOSAL.” These women treat men as just that, disposable commodities that they can “will” to do anything they desire. Don’t play that game, and don’t get stuck as their servant. Remember you have to have a high self-worth. If you bend over backwards and do everything for them they won’t respect you. If you refuse to complete their bullshit tasks they might be a little perturbed at first but they will eventually place a higher value on you, that is, if you draw that line in the sand.
Scenario: You and your hot piece of ass are sitting on the couch watching a movie, a classic like “Die Hard One,” or “Rambo First Blood.” Well maybe not those movies but sure as hell not watching “BrokeBackMountain” or “Legally Blonde” that is unless she’s bobbing your knob during the previews.
You are enjoying the first 30 minutes of the movie. You are both equally far away from the kitchen and both equally as capable of grabbing something out of the fridge. The woman asks you to get her some water from the fridge, what do you do?
A) Get her the water and ask politely if she wants ice or a slice of lemon in her water.
B) Say with a jovial tone, a smile and a gentle nudge: “I quit my job as a waiter years ago and you’re not paying me enough to re-live that experience.”
The correct answer is of course “B” the exact wording is up to you but the concept remains the same. You are not going to get her the water. She is equally as capable of getting it for herself. Now, this is not to say that if you got up from the movie on you own accord, you can’t offer to get her anything. But, if you’re sitting on the couch, hopefully enjoying a movie getting up on her demand to “serve her” will lower your own personal value and let her be in control. You never want the woman to be in control!
Hot women are used to having everyone cater to them, they expect it. Never reinforce this behavior, let her know that she is your “BITCH” and not the other way around!
Step 6: Tears
Skank’s Suggestion #6:
“If all else fails, resort to what you learned from preschool; turn on the water works. Not screaming and crying, just use pretty little sobs and maybe a whimper or two. Men are scared of crying women, they will do anything in their power to make you stop. Just remember not to go too far or he might start to think you’re a high maintenance, crazy/emotional bitch. If he does walk…Oh well, plenty more fish in the sea.”
Response #6:
There is no advice on how to handle a woman’s tears or crying. Obviously we aren’t trying to be COMPLETE AND TOTAL ASSHOLES, but if a woman is welling up in tears, run for the hills! Unless her dad just passed away, or her friend got hit by a car, she should not be crying. Now, you can sooth her and try to ease her tears, but if you continuously do that, you will validate her crying and you will be responding favorably to her tears. Doing this will only reinforce her crying/wining bullshit act. So if you like to deal with a crying sniffling bitch, who wells up over everything from “the nail salon forgetting to put the frosted-fucking-tips on her stupid-ass nails” to “her puppy being sick” then go right ahead. Make your own determinations of the validity of a woman’s crying, but 99 out of 100 times it’s a nonsense “shit-test” to make you comfort her. My advice is to steer clear of that kind of “train-wreck.” This kind of behavior will only persist, especially if you buy into it, and reinforce this behavior by appeasing her pitiful tears.
So our advice to you is to, locate your scrotum, be a confident man, and don’t put up with all the crap these women throw at you…or you will just end up all covered in SHIT!
This clip was taken directly from every guys brain…it is dead on…If this guy was smart he would have sat in the back near the window to scope the tits and the window to help get rid of the smell if he busts ass… he probably couldn’t sit where he wanted because he was late for class…We forgot what it was like to space out in class…ahhh the fond memories!
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